***LIFE'S LONG ROAD***

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I've been thinking for a long time what I have done in my life. I started by, being taught in school to become a good citizen. I spend a great part of my childhood studying and finally, I get the Diploma that will assure me the position that I desire. I participate the increase of unemployment until I find a job. Through hard test I accepted in the world of work. I perform a good professional carrier filled with activity and efforts. A lot of efforts, till I fall down and exhausted. But I have the ability to balance work and personal life. Work that is truly enjoyable, security for my future, good pay or I can say I have a good salary and enjoyable co-workers.

But time waits for no one...I moved forward selecting new objectives. I met my sweetheart of my life and promising a never ending love. Passionate love follows. We decided to get married, then finally I become a Mrs. My single name change to married name. I'm really happy that I am now a married woman.


After getting married, me and my hubby are always together. We stay for almost 7 months and we really had fun and enjoyment in our life being a couple. But the time has come and he needs to come back to his homeland where we begun to settle down. Unfortunately, I was unable to come with him, as I need to process my papers yet.

Starting then, I feel the changes in my life being far away of my husband. I guess that I'll be perish without him, I can say he's my life, my everything and my all. The processing is very slow I cant pushed the time, to make it fast. The time is so slow when you have something to wait. At first, I cried and sulk myself, Im used to be with my hubbys arms. I feel the emptiness inside my heart. I really longed to be with him. I am not satisfied on chatting and hearing his voice in distance. I always stuck myself in my room, talking to no one, all my friends are gone. I feel nowhere and no one I cant turn to. I choose myself to be lonely, alone and abandoned.

Focusing on my status, I decided to improve my life through weekly good deeds. I'll take life easier. When my life is so cloudy I need to be guided until Im sure I can open up my heart. I will assert myself and listen to others, especially friends and my family. I create a relaxing and harmonious life. I go to church every Sunday, seeing friends unexpectedly. Meeting new acquaintances and seeing different kinds of people. My life now is in harmony just like a song. From now on, my priorities are blogging, chatting with hubbs, entertaining friends, traveling, taking trips everywhere, sports and keeping friendship alive.

Now, I didn't notice the time is running so quickly, we finally reached our 1st level in our married

life. We have our first wedding anniversary, I can't imagine how I struggled being far away from him. But life must go on, and I learned not to wait the time, coz every time is gold. I noticed that time is so slow when you have nothing to do. It's only a matter of time and it's worth waiting for the right time comes along.

I am tired of changing my templates, it gives a lot of hassle. Plus it really takes time to change, I guess I need my own design. lol. I did like my template before, but due to circumstances and to evade of having similarities, that's why I changed it.
Well, its likely to happen having the same templates in these blogsphere. That's inevitable to happen in these small world of blogging.
Officially, free templates is basically used for everyone, it's absolutely free for everybody and obviously we are free and allowed to use it. Some blogs have nice templates, plus a design by whom which is talented enough to flaunt their creativity and talent. Of course, it will become nice and looking more beautiful, certainly with a price. But some bloggers are likely to used those free templates as its nice to used it for free. That's why Im thanking those who made a free templates for different types of blogging. I guess this will be my templates from now on, I quit on changing it every time. Many thanks to those maker, I cant name them as they are many, so Im spreading my gratefulness. Hope you will make more templates for free.Lolz....

I experienced how shamed being caught in the act taking a nap while at work. Recently, I post regarding this matter on how to make an excuses if you get caught sleeping at work. Those are some strange reasons but somehow it is used to be funny. It is worldwide proven that sleeping at work is inevitable. I've experienced that way and that's really inevitable, especially working on shifting schedules.

Based on my experienced, I can't resist my sleepy head while working especially on night shift schedules. Though I sleep all day but still I cant evade, my eyes likely to close. I share you a little bit funny experienced of me at work. One time, I really fall asleep while doing my job, we're working on a mainline process, where output is badly needed as we are the input section. Sitting at work is prohibited it's only allowed in preggy employee, so obviously all of us in mainline are all standing while doing our respective process. I am a soldering operator, hence, the parts that Im going to soldered are very small so I need a microscope. Usually, Im used to lean my eyes on the microscope, so that nobody can see my eyes closed. ehehe. Even though , I close my eyes still my hands working and soldering those parts. Do you believe that?yes, I can do it but the result is no good. hahhah. Then my workmate, was laughing looking on my eyes forming a ball shaped because of the micro. But duhh, I ignore them so later then I can recover my napping coz honestly I feel ashamed, eventually it came back again in a few minutes. Though I keep trying to take away my sleepiness it still coming back. The worst experienced I ever did it was my hands being soldered on my soldering machine. So obviously I get burned my fingers as soldering machine is so hot. Of course it can make my eyes wide awake but consequently suffering the pain in my hand. Seems funny for me to remember those time of my life sleeping at work. Perhaps I'm on my growing period, maybe?lol, it's possible to occur in young ages but even older too. ahihi! I guess, that's really inevitable but consider this adage "prevention is better than cure".

Lately I get a chance to meet some of my close friend, we meet unexpectedly somehow its a strange feeling to meet your long lost friend. We did talk a lot of chikas about life and the things happened for the grueling years. Reminiscing the past about the place we go, the things we did, the experience, the laughs and everything. The things happened are all of a sudden, the time has gone so fast. Some of my mates now are still together after being ended their contracts in the company, only me was lost in space.

After leaving my job, my life started to change for some strange reasons, that I dont like to go out, hence, thats my favorite pastime especially taking trips with my friends. I remember, that even if we have no salary yet, as long as we have time to go through, even how far and even if we have no rest, we still go. We have vigor when it comes to exploring places and touring some different sites. Although our job is so tiring, we still have time to manage in traveling and trips.

The place we went with my mates are intendedly for new discoveries of the nature. We are fond of going to the beach, falls, mountains, islands and sorry I forgot the rest. lol. An overview of these, I remember the first place we go is the "Kawasan Falls". We are circle of friends and we're all girls totally all of us are 8. That time we're working night shift, hence we have overtime so continue working on the falls. Still have more energy to travel from Cebu and leaving at 3: am and reached at Kawasan with the sun begins to shine. All of us have a grin smile reaching that place for the first time ever in our life. It's perfectly wonderful and very cool place, the beauty of nature really exist and not a man-made falls. Also I never forget riding on a bamboo poles floating to get under to the huge stone and passing through the falls. While passing on the falls, you really feel that the water falls on the body is like a stone. What a great experience indeed.

Right after the Kawasan adventure,we go straight to Moalboal Diving which is the sea called "Baz dako" in other words big sand. A wide sand cover up the whole place, before you can reach the shore. A lot of divers there and also the seawater is very cold. So nice place, the sand is purely white and finely granules sand. First time to feel and touch the white sand in Moalboal.

Our next trip was in "Malapascua Island", all of us are excited to see the wonderful place. It was our first time to ride on a boat to reached the island. We stay for one night and touring different sites of the island, eating at the restaurant, videoke singing, and capturing a lot of memories there. Playing on the white sand and picking up beautiful stones which we really take it home. Sounds funny and seems were ignorant but we treat it a s a souvenir for ourselves, that we really been in that beautiful island. On the way back, we stop for a while in "Bogo Shrine", which is 150 steps before reaching the shrine of Mama Mary on top of it. We lighted up a candle and say our prayers and guidance on our trip.

Mangitngit Falls, is the second falls we visit which is typically different from the first falls we had been. The place is not that impressive, it's quite dangerous yet it's unfinished man-made resort. Actually we dont have plan to go their, our target place was the Oragay, but some of my friends was thinking for some adventurous event. So we have no choice, follow what others want. Although seems the place is kinda weird and very quite, however, we still having fun on that trip. Later then, months passes by we heard a news about the mangitngit falls which is collapse. Unfortunately, it causes death of some adventurer on that time of the landslide. That tragic event was alarmed us and cowardly stops us for having a trips for some strange place.

So another months came, and obviously all of us are craving and miss having a trips. So we decided to make a change on the place we went before, even though it's quite expensive but still all of us are agreed on the plan. It's obviously safe to go swimming on the resort. The first resort we went was the "Mountain Feliz Villa Estate Resort", if Im not mistaken ehehe. It's really expensive on the resort but fully satisfied of fun and swimming plus sliding. It was really fun on the slide, and it is our first time to ride on a very long and rolling slider. Secondly, Intosan resort was our second destination. Some of our friends didn't came along, still the rest comes, so we continue the discovery. Still have a wide big pool and small pool for kids plus sliding, but the first resort was nicer than the next one. We tried onto the slide, and gosh! we got scratched and earned some pain on the neck. The slider is made of cement I guess, when you stumble it's hard that causes scratched also very slippery. Were not having fun actually but at least we tried. hahah. Due to curiosity and ignorance , eheheh, well its prevalent but somehow we learned different things ad discover any ideas. Still the rip goes on, and the next resort was the "El salvador" which is quite nearer here in my hometown. So I guess thats our last trip after Im leaving them and getting married. Thats why my life now has officially changed, by the way I am before. After being separated with my mates, I admit that I really missed them and also taking trips everywhere. Hence, life is not always for having fun, taking trips with friends, need to settle down and farewell for those who have been part of our life. I guess, obviously I write a long story about my past, so maybe this enough for now.

Usually the things that I need to do during Sunday is to go to church and say a little prayer. Thats the basic thing that I do, then take a little time to have a bonding with my family, relatives and some friends. My life runs smoothly, the things that I did are just completely mellowed. It seems that I have a pretty life. Definitely, yes, I have a pretty life but not what you think, coz when it comes to pretty as in good life I mean fortunate enough to live well. I have a pretty good life but not with the luxurious things. Just a simply human who lives on earth.

As I hear the homily today, that Wants and Needs are different. Of course, thats prevalent words and sabutable right? But the priest says that "Many people now doesn't know what they needs and what they wants". Agree or not? Well, I agree coz sometimes, even if we know that we dont need that things we really buy as we really like it, in short we just want it. In some cases, people easily persuade by the new styles and thats what we called OSO! as in sabay sa oso. On the other hand, we just make ourselves suffer to buy those things that we really dont need, despite the fact that we only wanted to have it. But do we really know what we need? The priest say "All we need is God". And yes, I agree. Coz, only God knows. Right??

It's hard to start anything when you dont know what to do. But every journey begins with a first step,,right? So I make a move asking myself about my life going through. I'm kinda weird questioning myself and answering it all by myself. But before that, this questions is not only come up on my mind, I've read this on a magazine. So, I try and see for myself if I can answer it. This questions is like an evaluation of your whole life through. To make you fully understood, what I mean, here are the questions:

1. Where is my life leading to?_________________________
2. Where am I supposed to go?________________________
3. Where am I now in that direction?____________________
   

The first question asks for direction, the next for the destination and the last for the location. I am surprised to find out some discoveries having this questions. The answers are within yourself and yourself can answer. In some circumstances, you may find that your life has no direction at all, especially when you leave the first question unanswered. Or, if you have no definite answer for the second questions, you may see yourself getting tangled up in a circle.

This means that our life is going along but it's getting nowhere. Life is merely an endless round, we born, we grow, and we will die. Consequently, we can hardly locate ourself in a journey that leads and ends to the right path. Embedded in our being is the search for the meaning of life, the thirst to know where it begins and ends. That's why life is a long road to takes. So, put a direction in your life and dont forget the destination and the most of all is the location. Coz only ourselves can locate where are we going to. Now folks, "Do you know where you going to"??

While busy dropping and doing my daily blogging, my phone beeps with this tone "Guess what sexy you've got mail", oh what a nice tone isn't it?ehehe. I grab my phone and read my message, oh!what a surprise my friend invite me for a dinner at exactly 7 o'clock. So reply right away without asking any further clarification and what's the occasion and of course I will, it's gracious diba??? Im glad that this friend of mine never fails to remember me. Occasionally, we were always together before, since my life now has change I didn't go out most often.

After reading my message, Im carry on dropping, you know habitually I did dropping EC almost everyday. Dropping and viewing other blogs makes me wanna stay in front of my laptop all day. Without noticing the time, I always drop, drop, drop till I forgot.

I forgot that I have an appointment, my friend waiting me for a dinner. Oh shocks, It's already half passed eight. Since, she dont text me or even remind me to meet their, so Im not bothered to go. Anyway, I'll just disregard the said invitation, without knowing that my friend was waiting for me.

While eating my dinner, my friend came along bringing me a food. I was just an open-mouthed, looking like an idiot. ehehe. Then I start acting as if that I really forgot our meetings. Actually, I honestly forgot, at some point Ill just disregard it. She's unable to text me the time she was there coz shes lowbat, so she expect that I was there waiting for her. I feel her kindness towards me as she brings the food to my house. Well, I already ask an apology and better lack next time...

Many people say that life is too short, if life is too short then we will not stay longer like this. From the very beginning of our life , the day that our mother brought us to see the wonderful world, since then our road of life's begin.

Theres a lot of kinds of a road to takes, mostly rough roads. Basically, non of us living as free as the wind. It depends on how we handle things in our own hands. Just like the way it goes, "My heart leads me in this direction", you might follow what your heart says as it could possibly be but not certainly.

Generally, a lot of young people being mislead into the wrong direction. But we cannot blame them, as always remember the adage "No one's Perfect". Good thing comes with a second chance, precisely, chances is the great way to learn. People learned by their own mistakes.

Problems in life are inevitable, but beyond anything else, there is a particular reason why we have that. Theres a lot of rocks that trapped before landing through the right path. Hindrances is only a puzzled to take, once you solve it, you will be succeed. Just take it easy because life is a long road to takes.

This things are just come up on my mind having a thought about the things going on. I'm trying to be a writer, lol. Likewise, Im not craving to be a writer, I just like to express whats on my mind.