DO U EVER HATE YOURSELF
Have you ever felt like have a foe? Just about as slow, low, ugly, puffy, dropped and popped as buffy. Although you would never know who is it. Let me share you a story:
Judi feels that way about herself. She has a lovely figured and beautiful clothes. She is attractive and talented in music. Last week she told me how totally inadequate and ugly she feels.
Tall and handsome Tom is outgoing, fun-loving, and intelligent. But he flunked out of college. Why? He has such an inferiority complex he didn't think he could succeed.
Joan has a nice personality, and her many friends like her very much. She is good at sports and active in schools competition. Basically, she dislikes herself because she is racially different and has never learned to accept it.
Kurt, better than average scholastically, is a student body officer and he frequently participates in religious activities at church. He has real leadership capabilities, but he feels inadequate and useless. Therefore Kurt is not accomplishing what he could in life.
Another graphic case in point. I just read this on the wall. (never mind what kind of wall "washroom wall") these words, " I have taken the pill, hoisted my hemline above my thighs, and drooped it to my ankle,,,,, I've rebelled against the university, Love two men..earned my keep, kept my identity, and frankly,,,, I'M LOST!"
If you ever felt like one of this young people, would you sat on a lily pad and wait for a prince or princess to change things for you with a magic kiss???Poor resolution....A better way would be, to improve your feelings of worth. Learn to love and like yourself. Just like a song titled " The greatest love of all", and always see the bright side of life...
Teach them well and let them lead the way
Show them all the beauty they possess inside
Give them a sense of pride to make it easier
Let the children's laughter remind us how we used to be
Everybody searching for a hero
People need someone to look up to
I never found anyone to fulfill my needs
A lonely place to be
So I learned to depend on me
[Chorus:]
I decided long ago, never to walk in anyone's shadows
If I fail, if I succeed
At least I live as I believe
No matter what they take from me
They can't take away my dignity
Because the greatest love of all
Is happening to me
I found the greatest love of all
Inside of me
The greatest love of all
Is easy to achieve
Learning to love yourself
It is the greatest love of all
I believe the children are our future
Teach them well and let them lead the way
Show them all the beauty they possess inside
Give them a sense of pride to make it easier
Let the children's laughter remind us how we used to be
And if by chance, that special place
That you've been dreaming of
Leads you to a lonely place
Find your strength in love
March 6, 2008 at 3:02 AM
There was one time when I told hubby "I HATE MYSELF" . That was during nanay's admitted to to the hospital. I hated myself because I can do nothing to save her life.But you know hubby was upset on me that time. He told me, If I say I hate myself it also means I hate him. So from that On I never utter such word again. At the same time, I learned that I'm not God. All I can do is pray for nanay. It also makes me realize how great hubbys love to me. He is the best and nothing compares...mao rana cya..hehehhee
March 21, 2008 at 10:11 PM
hehehe, tanx for the comments han, i never thought that u made comments, well due to my busiest life i guess...hehheh, btaw oi, now i have spare time na jud to open my blogs and more things to do, what i want..u know naah, lately a lot of hassle in my mind and no time to think what should i do in mah life..u r so blessed han to have him in ur life, his definitely ur savior and the prince in your life...is sad ko dah...lol