1/29/08

The Truth About"Falling in Love"  

We asked people why they married. The majority of the couples answered,"Because we 'fell in love.'". They no doubt did. We married because we experience a feeling that we interpreted as love. It is difficult, however, to state with any degree of accuracy precisely what love is. "When two people are under the influence of the most violent, most insane, most delusive, and most transient passions, then we are required to swear that we will remain in that excited, abnormal, and exhausting condition continuously until death do we part."
Theres a lot of definitions of love as they say:

"Love is a state of perceptual anesthesia."
"Love is grave mental disease."
"Love is a friend, a fire, a heaven, a hell,/Where pleasure, pain, and sad receptance dwell."
"Love is a feeling you feel when you feel you are going to get a feeling you never felt before."
"Love is an unconditional commitment to an imperfect person."

To love somebody is not just a strong feeling-it is a decision, it is a judgment and it is a promise, but sometimes promises are made to be broken.(yeeeessss). Furthermore, we use term love in many different senses. We say,(for example) " I love my parents", "I love God", "I love pizza", hehehe i really love pizza, "I love my dog." I assume that you don't have the same emotional response for the dog that we do for god. This is about falling in love, and usually mean that we have fallen in love only with their "hearts." But falling in love with the heart is only a portion of the love process. So when you fall in love,activate with your heart and your head. Perhaps we think of genuine love as red-hot feeling that will burn steadily till the end of our lives together. But love neither stands still nor continues at the same level or intensity of a lifetime. Yes its true, theres a lot of couples now who are easily break-up and forget their promises that they made in front of god. Dont number among them, just remember "in good times and in bad times, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health, till death do we part." Love is the most important element in the "COUPLE" and center "GOD" in the relation.....

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