***LIFE'S LONG ROAD***

Its been a long time, as you've noticed...Anyways I still open this blog of mine every now and then and visit my co blogger. Somehow, got a lot of topics to post but quite too long to post it all so let me make it short.

So far, Ive reached the half way life here in England. Its about 6 months that I'm here and life still the same. Keep chatting everyday with my mamsy and family and I call them If I wasn't be able to chat.

Got a part time job that makes me a little bit happier. Its only 2 hrs a day and day off every Sat and Sun. Very easy job, and I'm having fun doing it.

Me and my hubby stroll around the beach when we got time. Lately, we go their every eve, we watch the sun set. Its beautiful out their and sometimes we bring someting to eat while watching the sun and the wide open beach.

Its spring time here and the flowers are blooming everyday. We been to many beautiful botanic gardens near in my place and we saw different kinds of lovely flowers.

We been to many parks round here and I guess I already visit all the local places here. So at the moment, we have a break for going out as I have enough on seeing same places everytime we go out.

I spend my day listening music, watching films, chatting to my family, cooking my food, washing my clothes, cleaning the house, make myself st***d...lol

I feel more relaxed each day in my life here, so quite and peaceful. I have more time on relaxing than being pressure. I feel useless though..ehehhe, but I make myself useful. I do somethin' to complete my day, reading books. I'm exploring my mind through reading and after that it makes me go to sleep. End of story...

We been out again today to have some refreshments. This time my hubby take me to the park near in the town. At first we stroll around Victoria Park near Morrissons and splash world. Its a bit sunny day but still cold. Hayz, the weather here is really unpredictable, Id love to see the sunshine here.

While we're at the park there's a little puppy which is running behind me. Im a bit scared as it might bite me, so ,what I did is try to to touch and play with the cuttie puppy. The doggie is a bit friendly and I feel that he likes to have a cuddle with..eheheh. Later on, the owner of the doggie calls him and he runs after it. I notice that doggie make a mess on my pants.OMG!!! Well, its alright it will obviously get dirty as its white pants.

Then we just carry on, taking pictures here and there. After done taking picture, my hubby decided to go to another park which is the Hesketh Park. Hmmm. Actually, I been there already but Id like to come back again. In there we've meet an aquaintance and so we decided to ask her to take us picture both. So nice of her, she do it right away, then after I ask to have picture with me.ehehhe. Im not shy noh!!Yeh, so here our picture...Enjoy viewing....

Hmmm...I feel strange wearing my clothes here, this is not what I used to. I usually wear sexy thingy when I was in Philippines, like sleeveless and shorts. But here, cant wear like that, Im fully wrapped like a chicken that full of feathers.eheheh..

Everytime I go out I always have this stuff on my body. The scarf on my neck, gloves on my hands, boots on my feet and coat. But guess what, though I have all that stuff wearing in my body, but still I feel cold. omg!!!I feel I just cant get enough. Id like to wear sexy clothes here but I cant dare to wear it, I'll be freezing to death.ahaha.
Somehow, everytime we go shopping I always look for a clothes that makes me warm enough. Im glad my hubby dont complain everytime I get some stuff, well I dont get those very expensive things. Im thinking as well of the price that he can afford to. Im not so demanding as always just only sometimes..wheheh

Im back after having a nice time in San Miguel place. It's very nice their, though the place is quite like province, I really had a nice experienced in staying there for a couple of days. Its very cold there at night, good thing I bring some jackets. Suppose to be, I will not be here yet, and suppose to be Im in bed right now to have some rest, but I can't wait to see and open my blogs. Not to mention, I only have two blogs running, this one is for my Open diary which is talking about my journeys in life, basically about my trips and happenings, and my other blog is all about me and my hubby and also its my official website for taking an opportunities.

The only thing that inspired me a lot when I open my blogs is the comment from my visitors and co-blogger. Though I dont have a thousand visitors at least I know that there's someone who still make a glance in my blog. That's why Im extending my gratefulness, to those bloggers who visit me while Im far away. I really missed my life online and taking a tour into different sites. Although Im a bit tired I still make this post to let you know that Im back............whehehhe.. After this, its my time to make a glimpse and paying visit to those who leave a message in my cbox. Later then, I may take some rest, so that I can spend more time in taking my daily routine in life. To those who visited me, expect me to be visit you back, I will take a tour shortly. SEE YAH....

Im glad that my friend in high school still remember and think of me to be one of his guest on his big day event of his life. Though we're not so close with each other but he treat me as his one of his true friend until now.

At first, I decided not to go as Im a bit shy when it comes to party like this. On the second thought, I realized that wedding is hapens only once in our lifetime. Then just a while ago, I finally decided to go to the wedding ceremony of my friend, to witness thier vows with each other.
While watching them walking on the aisle, I remember my wedding moments. The feeling is really unexplicable, having a mixed emotions and certainly you cannot evade to shed your tears of joy.

Im having a great time on thier wedding, though his busy entertaining people and spending much time with his lawfully weded wife, he still spend time with me and my sis. and also he gave me giveaways too. Im very thankful that he still remember me as for the grueling years that we dont see each other nor communicating as often but despite the fact that he really keep me as one of his true friend in his life. Thank you my friend.

Nowadays, a lot of wearing headbands, as the fact that it adds ganda points and nice to look. A less styling looks yet looking good depends on the way you feel to wear. So I make myself one of them, though Im not looking good wearing headband. It comes to my mind to make a collection of any kinds of headband which is very known in bisaya it's called Turban. Although I dont feel like wearing headbands all the time but it makes me fun having a collection of any kinds of turban. Im only collecting those cheap ones, cant afford in expensive ones just for headbands. I may afford expensive ones but Id rather buy other things than those. I am not so addicted in making these collections, I just like buying when I see a new look headbands.

One time I was in the mall looking for a turban, I fit it on my head and when I look the price omg! the price is like buying a pillow? Dahh, Id rather buy a pillow nalang instead of headband eheheh. So far my collections are just few at the moment, I was just started liking to collect this thing when I saw my idol wearing those different styles and nice to look and colorful headbands. Actually I dont like wearing headband, it only depends on my hairstyle but usually I just like my hair freely to move. I am a bit old fashioned when it comes to styles, I am less style, though my hair is so long the style that I like is a full leaning on the back style. Haha, maybe it's not sounds familiar this kind of style, well thats only my own so-called style. So far I dont have all the kinds of headbands, I guess I only have 15, so I may buy more when I see another styles.

I've been thinking for a long time what I have done in my life. I started by, being taught in school to become a good citizen. I spend a great part of my childhood studying and finally, I get the Diploma that will assure me the position that I desire. I participate the increase of unemployment until I find a job. Through hard test I accepted in the world of work. I perform a good professional carrier filled with activity and efforts. A lot of efforts, till I fall down and exhausted. But I have the ability to balance work and personal life. Work that is truly enjoyable, security for my future, good pay or I can say I have a good salary and enjoyable co-workers.

But time waits for no one...I moved forward selecting new objectives. I met my sweetheart of my life and promising a never ending love. Passionate love follows. We decided to get married, then finally I become a Mrs. My single name change to married name. I'm really happy that I am now a married woman.


After getting married, me and my hubby are always together. We stay for almost 7 months and we really had fun and enjoyment in our life being a couple. But the time has come and he needs to come back to his homeland where we begun to settle down. Unfortunately, I was unable to come with him, as I need to process my papers yet.

Starting then, I feel the changes in my life being far away of my husband. I guess that I'll be perish without him, I can say he's my life, my everything and my all. The processing is very slow I cant pushed the time, to make it fast. The time is so slow when you have something to wait. At first, I cried and sulk myself, Im used to be with my hubbys arms. I feel the emptiness inside my heart. I really longed to be with him. I am not satisfied on chatting and hearing his voice in distance. I always stuck myself in my room, talking to no one, all my friends are gone. I feel nowhere and no one I cant turn to. I choose myself to be lonely, alone and abandoned.

Focusing on my status, I decided to improve my life through weekly good deeds. I'll take life easier. When my life is so cloudy I need to be guided until Im sure I can open up my heart. I will assert myself and listen to others, especially friends and my family. I create a relaxing and harmonious life. I go to church every Sunday, seeing friends unexpectedly. Meeting new acquaintances and seeing different kinds of people. My life now is in harmony just like a song. From now on, my priorities are blogging, chatting with hubbs, entertaining friends, traveling, taking trips everywhere, sports and keeping friendship alive.

Now, I didn't notice the time is running so quickly, we finally reached our 1st level in our married

life. We have our first wedding anniversary, I can't imagine how I struggled being far away from him. But life must go on, and I learned not to wait the time, coz every time is gold. I noticed that time is so slow when you have nothing to do. It's only a matter of time and it's worth waiting for the right time comes along.

I had a quick tour to my relatives house in province, Id like to travel especially if I can see a lot of mountainous area. It captures how wonderful the world is, the creation of our Almighty. After touring the sites, the most I like being in province is a lot of fruits, vegetables, and especially different kinds of animals. I dont know in some parts of provinces, but in the province I belong there's a lot of works in their hands. A fruit of the earth that satisfy them and it could be a source of their living. My uncle live here for such a long time, he owns the farm where I stand, though it's not mine, Im acting like mine...lolz...


It's a great pleasure sometimes to visit some of my relatives, coz they totally entertain me. My uncle getting busy of trapping the chicken in order to cooked food for me. My cousin, take me to the farm where we pick some mangoes, avocados, lemons, and many others.

Im really having fun on my excursion, Ive just stay there for almost 2 hours, I need to be back home before my hubby 's online. Im a bit tired carrying those fruits and vegetables as my uncle really wants to take it with me. Thats the most I like , coz I feel like been on the market. ahehe..:).

I been busy these days, being nanny for my little cute niece. Her mom gets busy with her new business. Since, I have nothing to do so I offer myself to look after my cute pamangkin.

That is why I dont have a regular post these past few days, dont even have a chance to make a regular drops. I miss being on my blogs, taking a tour to blogsphere world. Hitting my linkers friends, reading posts in other blogs and many things I miss being here on the intelife.

Im back at some point, I escape to look the baby for a moment..ahehe. I enjoy naman taking care of my niece, it can take away my loneliness and boringness in the house.

I experienced how shamed being caught in the act taking a nap while at work. Recently, I post regarding this matter on how to make an excuses if you get caught sleeping at work. Those are some strange reasons but somehow it is used to be funny. It is worldwide proven that sleeping at work is inevitable. I've experienced that way and that's really inevitable, especially working on shifting schedules.

Based on my experienced, I can't resist my sleepy head while working especially on night shift schedules. Though I sleep all day but still I cant evade, my eyes likely to close. I share you a little bit funny experienced of me at work. One time, I really fall asleep while doing my job, we're working on a mainline process, where output is badly needed as we are the input section. Sitting at work is prohibited it's only allowed in preggy employee, so obviously all of us in mainline are all standing while doing our respective process. I am a soldering operator, hence, the parts that Im going to soldered are very small so I need a microscope. Usually, Im used to lean my eyes on the microscope, so that nobody can see my eyes closed. ehehe. Even though , I close my eyes still my hands working and soldering those parts. Do you believe that?yes, I can do it but the result is no good. hahhah. Then my workmate, was laughing looking on my eyes forming a ball shaped because of the micro. But duhh, I ignore them so later then I can recover my napping coz honestly I feel ashamed, eventually it came back again in a few minutes. Though I keep trying to take away my sleepiness it still coming back. The worst experienced I ever did it was my hands being soldered on my soldering machine. So obviously I get burned my fingers as soldering machine is so hot. Of course it can make my eyes wide awake but consequently suffering the pain in my hand. Seems funny for me to remember those time of my life sleeping at work. Perhaps I'm on my growing period, maybe?lol, it's possible to occur in young ages but even older too. ahihi! I guess, that's really inevitable but consider this adage "prevention is better than cure".

Lately I get a chance to meet some of my close friend, we meet unexpectedly somehow its a strange feeling to meet your long lost friend. We did talk a lot of chikas about life and the things happened for the grueling years. Reminiscing the past about the place we go, the things we did, the experience, the laughs and everything. The things happened are all of a sudden, the time has gone so fast. Some of my mates now are still together after being ended their contracts in the company, only me was lost in space.

After leaving my job, my life started to change for some strange reasons, that I dont like to go out, hence, thats my favorite pastime especially taking trips with my friends. I remember, that even if we have no salary yet, as long as we have time to go through, even how far and even if we have no rest, we still go. We have vigor when it comes to exploring places and touring some different sites. Although our job is so tiring, we still have time to manage in traveling and trips.

The place we went with my mates are intendedly for new discoveries of the nature. We are fond of going to the beach, falls, mountains, islands and sorry I forgot the rest. lol. An overview of these, I remember the first place we go is the "Kawasan Falls". We are circle of friends and we're all girls totally all of us are 8. That time we're working night shift, hence we have overtime so continue working on the falls. Still have more energy to travel from Cebu and leaving at 3: am and reached at Kawasan with the sun begins to shine. All of us have a grin smile reaching that place for the first time ever in our life. It's perfectly wonderful and very cool place, the beauty of nature really exist and not a man-made falls. Also I never forget riding on a bamboo poles floating to get under to the huge stone and passing through the falls. While passing on the falls, you really feel that the water falls on the body is like a stone. What a great experience indeed.

Right after the Kawasan adventure,we go straight to Moalboal Diving which is the sea called "Baz dako" in other words big sand. A wide sand cover up the whole place, before you can reach the shore. A lot of divers there and also the seawater is very cold. So nice place, the sand is purely white and finely granules sand. First time to feel and touch the white sand in Moalboal.

Our next trip was in "Malapascua Island", all of us are excited to see the wonderful place. It was our first time to ride on a boat to reached the island. We stay for one night and touring different sites of the island, eating at the restaurant, videoke singing, and capturing a lot of memories there. Playing on the white sand and picking up beautiful stones which we really take it home. Sounds funny and seems were ignorant but we treat it a s a souvenir for ourselves, that we really been in that beautiful island. On the way back, we stop for a while in "Bogo Shrine", which is 150 steps before reaching the shrine of Mama Mary on top of it. We lighted up a candle and say our prayers and guidance on our trip.

Mangitngit Falls, is the second falls we visit which is typically different from the first falls we had been. The place is not that impressive, it's quite dangerous yet it's unfinished man-made resort. Actually we dont have plan to go their, our target place was the Oragay, but some of my friends was thinking for some adventurous event. So we have no choice, follow what others want. Although seems the place is kinda weird and very quite, however, we still having fun on that trip. Later then, months passes by we heard a news about the mangitngit falls which is collapse. Unfortunately, it causes death of some adventurer on that time of the landslide. That tragic event was alarmed us and cowardly stops us for having a trips for some strange place.

So another months came, and obviously all of us are craving and miss having a trips. So we decided to make a change on the place we went before, even though it's quite expensive but still all of us are agreed on the plan. It's obviously safe to go swimming on the resort. The first resort we went was the "Mountain Feliz Villa Estate Resort", if Im not mistaken ehehe. It's really expensive on the resort but fully satisfied of fun and swimming plus sliding. It was really fun on the slide, and it is our first time to ride on a very long and rolling slider. Secondly, Intosan resort was our second destination. Some of our friends didn't came along, still the rest comes, so we continue the discovery. Still have a wide big pool and small pool for kids plus sliding, but the first resort was nicer than the next one. We tried onto the slide, and gosh! we got scratched and earned some pain on the neck. The slider is made of cement I guess, when you stumble it's hard that causes scratched also very slippery. Were not having fun actually but at least we tried. hahah. Due to curiosity and ignorance , eheheh, well its prevalent but somehow we learned different things ad discover any ideas. Still the rip goes on, and the next resort was the "El salvador" which is quite nearer here in my hometown. So I guess thats our last trip after Im leaving them and getting married. Thats why my life now has officially changed, by the way I am before. After being separated with my mates, I admit that I really missed them and also taking trips everywhere. Hence, life is not always for having fun, taking trips with friends, need to settle down and farewell for those who have been part of our life. I guess, obviously I write a long story about my past, so maybe this enough for now.

Usually the things that I need to do during Sunday is to go to church and say a little prayer. Thats the basic thing that I do, then take a little time to have a bonding with my family, relatives and some friends. My life runs smoothly, the things that I did are just completely mellowed. It seems that I have a pretty life. Definitely, yes, I have a pretty life but not what you think, coz when it comes to pretty as in good life I mean fortunate enough to live well. I have a pretty good life but not with the luxurious things. Just a simply human who lives on earth.

As I hear the homily today, that Wants and Needs are different. Of course, thats prevalent words and sabutable right? But the priest says that "Many people now doesn't know what they needs and what they wants". Agree or not? Well, I agree coz sometimes, even if we know that we dont need that things we really buy as we really like it, in short we just want it. In some cases, people easily persuade by the new styles and thats what we called OSO! as in sabay sa oso. On the other hand, we just make ourselves suffer to buy those things that we really dont need, despite the fact that we only wanted to have it. But do we really know what we need? The priest say "All we need is God". And yes, I agree. Coz, only God knows. Right??

While busy dropping and doing my daily blogging, my phone beeps with this tone "Guess what sexy you've got mail", oh what a nice tone isn't it?ehehe. I grab my phone and read my message, oh!what a surprise my friend invite me for a dinner at exactly 7 o'clock. So reply right away without asking any further clarification and what's the occasion and of course I will, it's gracious diba??? Im glad that this friend of mine never fails to remember me. Occasionally, we were always together before, since my life now has change I didn't go out most often.

After reading my message, Im carry on dropping, you know habitually I did dropping EC almost everyday. Dropping and viewing other blogs makes me wanna stay in front of my laptop all day. Without noticing the time, I always drop, drop, drop till I forgot.

I forgot that I have an appointment, my friend waiting me for a dinner. Oh shocks, It's already half passed eight. Since, she dont text me or even remind me to meet their, so Im not bothered to go. Anyway, I'll just disregard the said invitation, without knowing that my friend was waiting for me.

While eating my dinner, my friend came along bringing me a food. I was just an open-mouthed, looking like an idiot. ehehe. Then I start acting as if that I really forgot our meetings. Actually, I honestly forgot, at some point Ill just disregard it. She's unable to text me the time she was there coz shes lowbat, so she expect that I was there waiting for her. I feel her kindness towards me as she brings the food to my house. Well, I already ask an apology and better lack next time...

Many people say that life is too short, if life is too short then we will not stay longer like this. From the very beginning of our life , the day that our mother brought us to see the wonderful world, since then our road of life's begin.

Theres a lot of kinds of a road to takes, mostly rough roads. Basically, non of us living as free as the wind. It depends on how we handle things in our own hands. Just like the way it goes, "My heart leads me in this direction", you might follow what your heart says as it could possibly be but not certainly.

Generally, a lot of young people being mislead into the wrong direction. But we cannot blame them, as always remember the adage "No one's Perfect". Good thing comes with a second chance, precisely, chances is the great way to learn. People learned by their own mistakes.

Problems in life are inevitable, but beyond anything else, there is a particular reason why we have that. Theres a lot of rocks that trapped before landing through the right path. Hindrances is only a puzzled to take, once you solve it, you will be succeed. Just take it easy because life is a long road to takes.

This things are just come up on my mind having a thought about the things going on. I'm trying to be a writer, lol. Likewise, Im not craving to be a writer, I just like to express whats on my mind.

I really love to have pets, actually I have already a pet dog named "browny", since shes growing older now I dont like to play her the most as often as I did when she was a puppy. Now Im glad my brother bring me another pet, which is very small and cute.. Like a teddy bear and his hair is like a velvet to touch. I dont have a name yet for my new pet, Im thinking of the best name for him. I want him the best name since he is a boy puppy. Actually my brother bring two puppies, I only want one as I dont want to look after the two puppies together. So my sis. got the other one puppy, she loves to have pet too like me. Me and my sister are always have something in common, actually we are a pet lovers..I can make a cuddle with my new pet now after longing for cuddling a toy.

I already have a PPP before, but sad to say I officially, I mean accidentally vanished all my badge of honor. Especially my PPP badges, I never thought that if I change my url, my badges will be gone. I did change my url not knowing that all my decorations of my blogs will vanished. So I did signed up again in PPP and thanks they approved my blog right away. PPP is really helpful in blogging thats why Im worried that my PPP badges are loss. As I noticed, almost all bloggers have PPP, so I dont want to be out of place as a family member of PPP. Now, Im happy that I am a member again in PPP family. Supposedly, that if I change my url, all my badges will still be there. But I mistakenly believe of what I did and now Ive messed up my blogs.

At first, I didn't take the notice about losing my PPP badge, Im having a second thought that maybe my lappy is just slow to download and they not appear yet because of slow downloading. But after seeing my tabs its "Done", I began to wonder, that I did some fault why they are loss. So I did check right away the code of the badges, Im surprised it's still there, but Im confused why there not working and dont even appear in my blogs. Later then, I found out that I did something wrong in my page, just because of changing my URL. Actually, I uttered a sigh, whispered goodbye....Goodbye to all my badges..But now, Im trying to retrieve all my badge of honor of my blogs.

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Today is the second death anniv. of the late husband of my sis. We commemorate the sudden death of his life although its been a long time but we still have a lugubriousness feeling and the feeling of emptiness without him. Even though his only a husband of my sister but still his part of our family. I remember the last day that I saw him, he got haircut to next door. While Im on the mirror I noticed him outside he was very happy that time talking to the barber. As that time is the day to get discharge their baby at the hospital. The baby was confined their for a couple of weeks or so. According to my sis. her husband was the one who look after the baby until midnight and then when my sis was awake, she let her hubby slept. It was 2 o'clock in the morning, that her husband was suddenly awake after resting just a minute. That time he say his last words to his wife "Please take good care of the baby", then he go back to sleep. My sister did'nt take any notice of whats his husband sa, she just let it back to sleep. Later then, she saw that her hubby was getting hard, and he cant speak easily. Right then, he was sent to ER but the doctors and nurses are not able to save his life even his at the hospital. The doctor findings is cardiac arrest, some say it was heart attack while others say its over fatigue and stress. But whatever reason of his death, its by Gods will. It was saddening the day he came back to the house that he's on the coffin. I really feel sad that time also looking at their baby really made me cry, having a pity to my sis. Of all the people I know, I guess he's the last good man on earth. Unfortunately, those who are super bait will be early to rest in peace. Well, anyway all of us have ending, but it really hurts that our love ones will passed away. Thats life, so we must have self esteem and enjoy the journey to travel in this wonderful world. Take a walk of life through the right road and cherished every moment.

I heard a scary news from my sis. this is a top stories from her co-employee. Do you believe that this coming July 18, there will be an earthquake in Philippines, with 8.1 intensity and thousands of people will die!!! OMG!!! I cant believe this, Im not saying that I dont believe in prophecy but this is so terrifying. Its not that Im being horrible about this story but what if its true??Many people will not believe about predicting the fate of the world. As they bear the adage that 'Life is Unpredictable', and only GOD knows what will happen. So I did a research about this matter and mostly all his prophecies are becoming true. This prophecy is precisely predicted by,Mr. Juseleeno Nobulega DaRoose a Brazilian man, born in 1960, 48 years old now. He is a teacher, another normal citizen having a very poor life with his wife and kids. All the events which Mr. Juselleno predicted had clear indications of the year, month and dates of the disasters. In case any third party wants to confirm the facticity of his prophecy, Mr. Juselleno always put the story which he predicted to the notarization office or post office for approval.

In my town theres a place called "fish port" which is used to be a playground for everybody. As of now the port is still "men at work", so at the moment the people used it as a dating site or a family park. I went there one time to set myself free from worries. To see the finest sea and feel the sea breeze, but while Im there Ive witnessed the low tide situation. Only few people picking up or catching any kind of seafoods. Unlike before that many people will pick up seafoods. Well, anyway I enjoy my stay there, it really helps me to feel comfy and relax....